Happy Thursday and Friday eve

 Sitting here on a Thursday afternoon and listening to Law and Order SVU and covered in a blanket on a beautiful day outside.  Later today I'll link up with the team family in Lenexa.  Work is pretty much quiet lately as its nearing the end of the FY2020 and at the end of the month we get to do it all over again with the start of the new FY.  Annnnndddd of course the second job RWB has me more busy than anything else.  From leading the activities to trying to stay up to date with pending events and OGR on the 28th.  I met with Katy recently and shared with her that on some days (not all but most) I feel myself living life again, feeling better not dealing with the PTSD and memories or thoughts or need to contact HMB or MMS (her new initials).  Through further research, its amazing that she picked that Gary dude who is 12 years her senior, but I guess it was the money side that she was after.  Definitely more of a materialistic thing than anything I'm sure which in itself is disappointing but not surprising.  Materialistic and judgmental are not true traits of a Christian woman as she claims to be but thats his problem, not mine.  No way was any of that worth spending no less than a grand on a dang dog.  I finally feel released from the PTSD from Heather's goofy ass too.  I occassionally get curious about her dumb ass but at the same time but aside from the "record" and the morons at LSPD with their bullshit, I have no concern for her location, or her wellbeing, she can pretty much fuck off with her fat ass and oversized boobs. Why for whatever reason would she track down Emily I dont know but I hope that she knows never to come in contact with her or else!!! I'm thankful that Emily has the patience of I dont know what every day even when she is having tough days with school starting back up.  I know how Blessed she makes me feel and I know I got lucky when she picked me to pursue and was patient enough to wait me out.  Not sure why she waited for me to get my shit together but thankful that she did.  How did she know that we would gel so well together? Totally believe the ladies up in heaven watching over us had a plan in bringing us together and continue to watch over us on our daily lives. 

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